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We are a voice for Christian, metropolitan dating. On the show, we collect honest stories to find liberating wisdom for discovery and companionship.Cohosted by marriage & family therapist Candice Candelaria and pastor/spiritual director Matt Barrios; based out of the San Francisco Bay Area. Est. Feb. 2018.
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Friday Aug 16, 2019
Friday Aug 16, 2019
Back for part two of the conversation on Attachment Theory, Candice and Matt ask the important questions about attachment in dating: How would it actually if people who were psychologically secure dated one another? And how does the security of God help bring us into the freedom of more secure relationships?
To learn more about the show and to connect with Matt or Candice, visit https://www.dateology.org/.
Friday Jul 26, 2019
Friday Jul 26, 2019
How do our early established patterns of relating affect how we date? Listen as Candice expertly teaches about the psychology of attachment. And listen as Matt tries to keep pace with her psychological wisdom!
Referenced:
How We Love by Milan and Kay Yerkovich
To learn more about the show and to connect with Matt or Candice, visit https://www.dateology.org/.
Friday Jun 21, 2019
Friday Jun 21, 2019
Sharing a quick nugget of wisdom (ain't it so Christian to refer to bits of wisdom as "nuggets??"), Candice speaks from her psychological expertise about boundaries. What are appropriate emotional boundaries to keep in relationships? When is self-disclosure a good idea, and when it is right to hold some vulnerable parts of your story for another time?
Plus, Candice announces our need for a sound engineer and the upcoming Happy Hour event in San Francisco on Thursday 6/27/19
To learn more about the show and to connect with Matt or Candice, visit https://www.dateology.org/.
Friday May 31, 2019
Friday May 31, 2019
How do you know when to get exclusive and when to keep it casual? Candice and Matt explore what goes into the conversation: "I want to be exclusive. How about you?" Plus, why not talk about Saved by the Bell and the Archie comics?
To learn more about the show and to connect with Matt or Candice, visit https://www.dateology.org/.
Friday Feb 22, 2019
Friday Feb 22, 2019
Taking a slight detour from a show all about Christian dating, Candice and Matt discuss singleness. What makes it so difficult? Why's it so beautiful? And hold on a sec... Jesus was single. That's a game changer.
To learn more about the show and to connect with Matt or Candice, visit https://www.dateology.org/.
Friday Feb 08, 2019
Friday Feb 08, 2019
Candice and Matt chat about the reality of rejection and its foreboding presence in dating. What does it look like to let someone down easily, and how can connecting with Jesus help us handle the pain of rejection?
To learn more about the show and to connect with Matt or Candice, visit https://www.dateology.org/.
Tuesday Jan 22, 2019
Tuesday Jan 22, 2019
Candice and Matt discuss all that is amusing, strange, illuminating, and sometimes painful about meeting your partner’s family. And ultimately, they discover how as followers of Jesus, there is great opportunity for honor, redemption and writing a new story.
To learn more about the show and to connect with Matt or Candice, visit https://www.dateology.org/.
Tuesday Jan 08, 2019
Tuesday Jan 08, 2019
Candice and Matt talk with Mark Scandrette about the many complexities of city life and how they can make dating relationships challenging — but not impossible! Mark has been doing Christian ministry in San Francisco for 22 years, so this an episode full of wisdom and opportunities for reflection.
Mark Scandrette is an author, teacher, activist, and coach, and you can find all his books and other resources at https://www.markscandrette.com.
To learn more about the show and to connect with Matt or Candice, visit https://www.dateology.org/.
Tuesday Dec 25, 2018
Tuesday Dec 25, 2018
Candice and Matt return for the first episode of season 2! This episode is all about where to meet people. And the question they spend a good amount of time on is... where are YOU?
To learn more about the show and to connect with Matt or Candice, visit https://www.dateology.org/.
Thursday Aug 30, 2018
Thursday Aug 30, 2018
How about we reflect on and celebrate some of what we’ve learned in a season 1 culmination? Join Candice and Matt as they enjoy a fun retrospective. Plus, they have a special word of blessing and gratitude for all their listeners.
And... they announce a new website where you can reach out! To meet, visit https://www.dateology.org/